FALL FORWARD



I found that nothing in life is worthwhile unless you take risks.
Nothing.
Nelson Mandela said there is no passion to be found playing small in settling for a life that's less than the one you're capable of living.
No, I'm sure in your experiences in school and applying to college and picking your major and deciding what you want to do with life, I'm sure people that told you to make sure you have something to fall back on.
Make sure you got something to fall back on, honey.
But I never understood that concept. Having something to fall back on if I'm going to fall.
I don't want to fall back on anything. I want to fall forward. I figured least this way. I'll see what I'm going to hit.
Without consistency, you'll never finish.
So do what you feel passion about. Passionate about, take chances.
Don't be afraid to fail is in all IQ test was nine ducks and you had to draw five lines with a pencil.
Within these nine dots without lifting defence, the only way to do it was to go outside the box.
Don't be afraid to think outside the box.
Don't be afraid to fail. Be to dream big. But remember.
Dreams without. I guess dreams.
Reggie Jackson struck out twenty six hundred times in his career, the most in the history of baseball, but you don't hear about the strikeouts.
People remember the homeruns. Full forward.
Thomas Edison conducted one thousand failed experiments and you know that I didn't know that because the one thousand first was the light bulb.
Full forward. Every failed experiment is one step closer to success.
You've got to take risks and I'm sure you've probably heard that before.
But I want to talk to you about why that's so important.
You will fail at some point in your life. Accept it. You will lose. You will embarrass yourself. You will suck at something.
There's no doubt about it. I know that's probably not a traditional message for a graduation ceremony, but I'm telling you, embrace it because it's inevitable.
In the acting business, you fail all the time early on in my career, I auditioned for a part in a Broadway musical perfect role for me, I thought, except for the fact that I can't sing.
I didn't get the job.
But here's the thing. I didn't quit. I didn't fall back.
I walked out of there to prepare for the next audition and the next audition and the next door. I prayed. I prayed. And I pray.
But I continue to fail, fail and fail. But it didn't matter because you know what? There's an old saying you hang around the barbershop long enough, sooner or later you're gonna get a haircut.
So you will catch a break and I did catch your break.
Last year, I did a play called Fence's on Broadway. But here's the kicker. It was at the Court Theatre.
He was at the same theater that I failed in that first audition 30 years prior. The point is every graduate here today has the training and the talent to succeed.
But do you have the guts to fail? If you don't fail, you're not even trying. I'll say it again. If you don't fail, you're not even trying. To get something you never had.
You have to do something you never did.
Imagine you're on your deathbed and standing around your deathbed, are the ghosts representing your unfulfilled potential? The ghost of the ideas you never acted on, the ghost of the talents you didn't use. And they're standing around your bed angry, disappointed and upset.
They say we we came to you because you could have brought us to life. They say.
And now we have to go to the grave together. So I ask you today.
How many ghosts are gonna be around your bed when your time comes?
I just got back from South Africa's beautiful country, but there are places there with terrible part of it. Poverty that need help in Africa is just the tip of the iceberg.
The Middle East needs your help. Japan needs your help. Alabama needs your help. Tennessee needs your help. Louisiana needs your help. Philadelphia needs your help.
The world needs a lot and we need it from you. We really do, we needed from you young people.
I mean, I'm not speaking for the rest of us up here, but I know I'm getting a little grayer. We need it from you. The young people, because remember this, you got to get out there. You got to give it everything you got, whether it's your time, your your your talent, your prayers or your treasures.
What are you going to do with what you have? I'm not talking about how much you have. Some of you are business majors. Some of you were theologians, nurses, sociologists.
Some of you have money. Some of you have patients. Some of you have kindness. Some of you have low.Some of you have the gift of long suffering, whatever it is.
Whatever your gift is, what are you going to do with what you have? All right, now here's my last point about fear sometimes. It's the best way. To figure out where you're going.
Your life will never be a straight path. I began at Fordham University as a pre-med student.
I took a course called the Cardiac Morford Genesis. I couldn't read it. I couldn't say it. I sure couldn't pass it. So then I decided to go into pre-law, then journalism. And with no academic focus, my grades took off in their own direction.
I was a one point eight GPA, and the university very politely suggested that it might be better to take some time off.
I was 20 years old. I was at my lowest point. And then one day and I remember the exact day, March 27, 1975. I was helping my mother in a beauty shop. My mother owned a beauty shop up in my brain. And there's there was this older woman who was considered one of the elders in the town. And I didn't know her personally, but I was looking in a mirror. And every time I looked at the mirror, I could see her back behind me. And she was staring. She just kept looking at me. Every time I looked at it, she kept giving me strange looks. So she finally took the dryer off her head and sets to some. She said something I'll never forget. She said, Young boy, I have a promise.
A spiritual prophecy. She said you are going to travel the world and speak to millions of people.
And in the years that followed, just as that woman prophesize, I have traveled the world and I have spoken to millions of people through my movements. Millions who up till this day couldn't see me. I blew up till this day. I couldn't see. While I was talking to them. And they couldn't see me. I could only see the movie. It couldn't see the real me. But I see youths today. And I'm encouraged by what I see. And I'm strengthened by what I see. Because taking risk is not just about going for a job. It's also about knowing what you know and what you don't know. It's about being open to people and to ideas.
The chances you take, the people you meet, the people who love the faith that you have, that's what's going to define you.
Never be discouraged.
Never hold back.
Give everything you got and when you fall throughout life.
Remember this fall forward.

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